Episode 48: A New Conversation on Collective Church Trauma (featuring Kayleigh Clark)
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Episode Summary
The church is supposed to be a place of healing. But what happens when it’s the source of the hurt?
Too often, we hear stories of toxic leadership, forced terminations, and broken congregations. And yet, no one wants to talk about it - not in the pulpit, not in the pews. The result? Wounds that never heal, pastors who burn out, and churches stuck in cycles of dysfunction.
In this episode, we sit down with Kayleigh Clark from Restor(y) to talk about church trauma, spiritual abuse, and the path toward real healing. This isn’t just theory - it’s real-life ministry, where pain meets restoration.
Key Takeaways
Church trauma is real - and it doesn’t just affect congregants. Pastors are hurting, too.
Healing must happen inside the church - we can’t keep looking for solutions outside the body of Christ.
Difficult transitions leave lasting scars - but identifying past wounds is the first step to moving forward.
God’s solution? Shepherds who care for the flock - not just institutions, but people who lead with compassion.
Chapter Markers
⏳ [00:00] – Why church trauma isn’t just an individual issue
⏳ [04:30] – The hidden cost of toxic congregations and forced terminations
⏳ [10:15] – Why “revitalization” often fails when trauma is ignored
⏳ [15:40] – What it means to be a trauma-informed pastor
⏳ [24:00] – How Restory is helping churches rewrite their narratives
⏳ [30:10] – Practical steps toward healing, for both pastors and congregations
If church hurt has left you wounded, you’re not alone. Whether you’re a pastor in transition, a church leader navigating dysfunction, or a congregation longing for restoration, there is hope.
🔹 Learn more about Restory’s work at restorycenter.com
🔹 If you need a safe space to talk, we’re here. Visit pastoraltransitions.com to start the conversation.
🔹 If you believe in this work, consider donating to help pastors in crisis find healing.
The church can be whole again. But it starts with facing the wounds. Let’s walk that road together.
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